The Relative Advantages of Learning My Language

Why Does It Matter


The darkness of a death and the regret of what could have been is a key feeling that is forced upon the reader when reading the relative advantages of learning my language. 


The disconnection from a culture to fit in with the mainstream Australian society is the main 'theme' within the story. 'i didn't see the point in speaking chinese. We lived in Australia' furthers the way the Australian environment changes cultures and immigrants to be the english speaking society it is today. 


This disconnection is opposed and mended with the darkness of death of a family member which happens to everyone at some point in there life therefore making it relatable. The overshadowing of what could have been makes me, as the reader, feel guilty for the disrespect of lack of attention to that which i no longer have.The ability to communicate is the most simple of human desire, and the sparing way we use it is only foreshadowed by what could have been. The mutual feeling of 'not trying to discover my roots' but rather 'next time an elderly relative wants me to listen to them, i am not only willing, i am able. 


The sinister idea of death followed by the haunting feeling of regret is why someone should read this story. It opens up the mind to another place, a place of respect and living without the regret so prominent in the story.